Preparing children for entrance exams can be a daunting task. As parents, you, of course, want to see them succeed, but also strive to ensure their journey is as stress-free as possible. Is it possible to achieve this delicate balance?
In my role as an entrance exam tutor for children preparing for 7+ and 11+ exams, I often engage in conversations with parents who express their desire for an stress-free preparation process. It’s a sentiment we can all relate to—wanting the best for our children without subjecting them to unnecessary pressure. However, in the realm of competitive entrance exams, complete elimination of stress may not be entirely feasible.
Nonetheless, there are strategies we can employ to minimise and manage it effectively.
1. Be Really Clear: From the outset, understanding what is involved in achieving success is paramount. As a tutor, I have very open conversations with parents about the realities of exam preparation. This includes discussing the amount of work involved, potential adjustments to schedules, and the weekly time commitment required. By setting clear expectations early on, we can alleviate anxiety and uncertainty for everyone involved.
2. Infuse Joy into Learning: Contrary to popular belief, learning doesn’t have to be dull and monotonous. Incorporating fun and engaging activities into sessions is a must! Making learning enjoyable can significantly reduce stress levels.
3. Prioritise Consistency over Cramming: The temptation to resort to last-minute cramming before exams is understandable, but it rarely leads to optimal results. Instead, I encourage a steady, structured approach to learning and practising the content for entrance exams over an extended period. By spacing out learning and revisiting material regularly, children feel more confident in their abilities, thereby reducing stress as exam day approaches.
While there’s no magic formula to completely eliminate stress from the exam preparation process, these principles can go a long way in making it more manageable for both parents and children alike.
Ultimately, of course, it’s not just about the outcome but also the experiences and lessons learned along the way. T
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